Parents and their Children

Parents and their Children

You often heard your friends negatively talking about their parents, not only this but also their condition in the environment where they're living. So this article is more focused on the conflict that arises between parents and their children. As values acculturate(in India), generally, children are observed feared by one of their parents either mentally or physically (below 16). Also, parents keep a criterion and constant statements regularly which causes the implantation of weird feelings in the children's minds. So they ignore what they say or their advice. I have also observed some parents who have not educated enough themselves, find difficulty in getting their children and finally ignore their behaviors and mistakes, this leads to slow-poisoning to their relationship. Some parents with-time became so shielding that they bound their children to some rules or homes, which appears as the misconception of practical and social knowledge in their children.


Also in the new generations, it is quite seen that they don't know about the mythological stories which are a great booster for the children, the great example in India is Chattrapati Shivaji Maharaj and his mother Jijabai who inculcated those great values in him and every 4th grade qualified knows the result. Now, I will also mention the Tarabai who was very popular among Marathas and but she was unable to look for her son which resulted in conflict between the Shahu Maharaj and them. This is rarely observed that the parents are using peaceful means to give values to their children, instead, they use their fear, emotion.

Humans naturally tend to antithesis the restrictions especially children and if guided in the wrong direction leads to major issues. And now about children, they are born with some creativity, but improper guidance causes them to wonder about the right path, mostly what they want is safe life of children. Let's say, a farmer has some plants on his/her farm and he/she decided that he should not let the rough winds affect the crops at the end the result will be worst i.e the crops will not flourish. So to have a safe life isn't a solution. Life isn't a life without difficulty. As per my reference, the author among (Taxila university) i.e Vishnugupta Chanyaka said that children are categorized into two age groups, one premature and then matured, so till the age of 5 love your child as much as you can but after age 5 you can scold them, but as he/she gets matured (age 16) it will be incorrect to scold them, instead you as parents have to consider them as your friend, and have friendly conservation to resonate him/her with your correct thoughts.

sometimes finance also affects the minds of children, some parents feel that they should not convey problems related to finance they are facing and keep their ward unaware about it, well this is the wrong decision they made since due to this children loses the respect for parents and money as well.


Thank you,

Pradyumn



Location: Yavatmal, Maharashtra, India

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